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Silent but Deadly

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Silent but Deadly

The Underlying Cultural Patterns of Everyday Behaviour

An entertaining anthropological tour through the big answers to life’s little questions.

Why do farts evoke laughter and disgust? Is the aversion to the left hand universal? Are dogs really humankind’s best friend? Why do we tip wait staff but not teachers? Can you still spot the difference between a Brit and an American by their teeth? In Silent but Deadly: The Underlying Cultural Patterns of Everyday Behaviour, Kirsten Bell, an anthropologist who has lived in five countries on four continents—and learned about cultural gaffes by constantly committing them—places our everyday behaviours under the microscope.

Boldly going where no anthropologist has gone before, no topic is too small or insignificant for Bell’s attention, whether it’s the propensity of Brits to place their washing machine in the kitchen, the disinclination of Americans to buy rounds at the pub, Australians’ well-documented obsession with toilet paper, or Canadian sensibilities around swearing. The kind of book Jared Diamond might write if he was more concerned with the meanings of bodily emissions than the collapse of civilizations, Silent but Deadly deciphers the cultural patterns that underlie our everyday quirks, foibles, and habits.

Praise for Silent but Deadly

'A politically-engaged anthropology student from Africa once told me that his greatest pleasure was wiping his backside on the college toilet papereach sheet of which was stamped, "Property of HM Government". Neither of us at the time thought this was the stuff of anthropology but we were wrong. Kirsten Bell in Silent but Deadly brings her learned but witty eye to bear on our most intimate of everyday activities showing how they reveal the unconscious worlds of meaning in which we all live. She may lay your anxieties about tipping to rest but you will never feel safe in the bathroom, kitchen or dentist's chair again though you will certainly laugh Nigel Barley, author of The Innocent Anthropologist: Notes from a Mud Hut.

'Kirsten Bell is an Australian social anthropologist living in the UK. She writes straight up, no messing about, and she's incredibly funny. Think Erma Bombeck crossed with Jilly Cooper and a dash of Tom Sharpe...  Silent but Deadly is an absolute delight' Ellen Whyte, Counsellor & Psychotherapist 

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